A Southern Twist on Funeral Food

Regular readers of this blog may recall that I LOVE funeral foods, an affection I inherited from my mother. With a nod to Shakespeare, she billed herself as a “specialist in funeral baked meats.” When a neighbor died she sprang into action organizing contributions to the post-funeral repast.

One of these days I will find a publisher for my death-related cookbook, which will be titled Dishes to Die For: America’s Favorite Funeral Foods. Meanwhile, I take inspiration from a new funeral-food cookbook that highlights the south.

The Southern Sympathy Cookbook: Funeral Food with a Twist (Countryman Press, $22.95, 176 pages) comes from the fertile pen and kitchen of Perre Coleman Magness. Magness, who lives in Memphis, Tennessee, is the author of Pimento Cheese the Cookbook. She is clearly my soul sister. In addition to doting on funeral food, I adore pimento cheese. I ate it almost daily when I lived in Tennessee.

Magness’s new book abounds with tempting recipes for classic southern foods, from fried chicken to chess pie. It also adapts many typical southern dishes into crowd-friendly form, providing for example a mini version of cinnamon buns and an easily sliced caramel Bundt cake (much handier for a large group than the typical layered version).

I recognized many of Magness’s recipes from my southern sojourns and also from funerals I have attended, but some were new to me. I can’t wait to try her paper-bag chicken (yes, it’s chicken roasted in a paper bag, and it sounds WONDERFUL) and her buttermilk pie bars.

The Southern Sympathy Cookbook is a keeper—perfect to consult when you’re heading out to a funeral or just entertaining friends and family at home.

Photo courtesy of Perry Coleman Magness and Countryman Press

Southern Sympathy Sweet Tea Bread (Courtesy of Perre Coleman Magness/Countryman Press)

Sweet tea is a staple of southern hospitality. Almost every restaurant at which I dined in Tennessee and Texas provided large pitchers of sweetened iced tea at low cost. Here Magness uses this ingredient as the basis for an elegant sweet loaf.

Ingredients:

1 family-sized tea bag
2 sprigs mint, plus 1 tablespoon finely chopped mint
8 tablespoons (1 stick) unsalted butter, at room temperature
3/4 cup granulated sugar
the zest of one medium lemon
2 eggs
1-1/2 cups all-purpose flour
1/2 teaspoon baking powder
1/2 teaspoon salt
3/4 cup confectioners’ sugar

Instructions:

Put the tea bag and 2 sprigs of mint in a measuring cup. Add 1 cup boiling water. Steep for 30 minutes; then remove the tea bag and mint. Cool to room temperature.

Preheat the oven to 350 degrees. Spray a 9-by-5-inch loaf pan with baking spray.

Beat the butter and sugar together in the bowl of a stand mixer fitted with the paddle attachment until light and fluffy. Beat in the lemon zest and 1 tablespoon of finely chopped fresh mint. Add the eggs, 1 at a time, beating well after each addition and scraping down the sides of the bowl.

Measure out 1/2 cup of the tea, reserving the rest for the glaze. Add the flour, the baking powder, and the salt to the butter in the bowl in three additions, alternating with the tea and scraping down the sides of the bowl. When everything is well combined, beat on high for 5 seconds; then scrape the batter into the prepared pan and smooth it into an even layer.

Bake for 45 to 50 minutes until a tester inserted in the center comes out clean. Cool in the pan for 10 minutes; then remove to a wire rack to cool completely. Meanwhile, prepare the glaze.

Sift the confectioners’ sugar into a small bowl. Whisk in the remaining tea slowly until you have a pourable glaze about the consistency of heavy cream. Drizzle the glaze over the cake with a spoon, spreading to cover the top with a few attractive drips down the sides. Let the glaze set for about an hour.

The loaf will keep in an airtight container for a day. Makes one loaf.

Just for fun, here I am in full funeral mode, leaning on the tombstone of Abigail Baker, my hometown’s best known baker. Mrs. Baker won the famed pudding contest our town sponsored in 1780. This photo will grace the cover of my own funeral-food book. 

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11 Responses to “A Southern Twist on Funeral Food”

  1. Margie says:

    Love this post. It came the day after my daughter-in-law’s sweet grandmother passed away after struggling with Alzheimer’s and cancer. Geneva was a wonderful cook and definitely took food when someone died.

    Looking forward to your book. Hurry, Tinky, before in so old and someone will be bringing funeral food for me.

    Seriously, we know that it’s really something Southerners do, even to the excess! Not sure if people in other parts of the country do it or not.

  2. tinkyweisblat says:

    We tend to be slightly excessive in New England as well, Margie. I’m hoping the book won’t take too much longer, although I certainly HOPE you don’t need funeral food anytime soon.

  3. Nick says:

    I do like a funeral cold buffet.

  4. Regina says:

    Thanks for sharing the recipe, too! I might have to try that out. And now that you mention pimento cheese, I might have to make some of that as well. Mm, mm. Good eatin’.

  5. tinkyweisblat says:

    It does look good, doesn’t it? As for pimento cheese, I could not agree more.

  6. Julie says:

    The only “funeral food” or pot luck food I could never….and will never…..eat is that awful Ambrosia crap! Pimento cheese…..always……love the stuff! The cake recipe looks great!

  7. tinkyweisblat says:

    I even eat ambrosia!

  8. deb says:

    I’m going to try that tea bread. Can’t wait for the book. When I first saw the title I thought you had gotten yours published! Love the pic!

  9. tinkyweisblat says:

    Thank you, Deb. Some day….

  10. Rose says:

    Love the photograph for your new book!

    What is a family-sized tea bag? This is a new one for me.

  11. tinkyweisblat says:

    Thank you, Rose! Family-size bags are available at some stores and of course online. They are the equivalent of four regular tea bags.