Posts Tagged ‘Molly Pyle Stejskal’

A Fabulous Memorial Day and Dip

Monday, September 30th, 2024

Alice as a Young Composer, courtesy of the Pyle Family

I have written before about my late neighbor, the composer Alice Parker. In early September, Mohawk Trail Concerts (MTC) celebrated Alice with an afternoon of songs she wrote and songs she loved—plus a song written in her honor. I was lucky enough to be among the performers that day.

In fact, I came up with the idea for the concert. I’m sure someone else at MTC would have thought of doing it, but I was the one who first suggested it.

When Alice died in December, I was (not unnaturally) sad. I felt for her family members, who have always been honorary relatives. And I felt for our neighborhood, which had lost one of its pillars.

I decided to do something constructive with my grief instead of just wallowing in it. First, I wrote a memorial article and radio commentary about Alice.

Then I started planning the concert.

The music began with a few hymns arranged by Alice, who was probably best known for her choral singing. The impromptu quartet of singers included Alice’s daughter Molly.

All concert photos are courtesy of Kurt Wessbach.

Molly went on to sing a couple of selections from Alice’s setting of “Songs for Eve” by another local luminary, Archibald MacLeish. (MacLeish read the poems aloud at the music’s initial performance.) She was accompanied by the Farm House Quartet, a group of musicians from our area (including MTC board members) who were dear to Alice.

Two members of the quartet who adored Alice, Maggie Speier and Roy Lewis, played Alice’s arrangement of the Gershwin song “Love Walked In.”

Their son, Jasper Lewis, played and sang a song he had written after Alice’s death about her influence on his music.

Then I took the stage (you knew I had to) with some lighter numbers, including Alice’s composition “Find Me a Man I Can Cook For,” which she gave to me to perform over a decade ago. It’s a comic song, and audiences always enjoy it.

After various people, including Alice’s son David, got up to share memories of Alice, we ended with a sing along. Her family and former students joined me for the final song, “He’s Got the Whole World in His Hands.”

And then we drank a toast to Alice and nibbled on contributions from the MTC board and their spouses.

My favorite nibble of the day was the layered-hummus dish prepared by Daphne Bye, a pianist who is married to MTC’s executive artistic director, Mark Fraser.

Daphne has an extensive garden, and that garden was featured in the hummus, which was lovely to look at and lovely to eat. She served it with corn tortilla chips, but if one is grain free like Daphne one can use vegetable sticks to pick up the dip.

Daphne chops the vegetables for the hummus very finely. She even quarters her cherry tomatoes, which can’t be easy to do. The result is that each bite of hummus brings with it several different vegetable flavors, embodying the produce of late summer and early fall.

She said that she has seen similar dishes that add a layer of sour cream and/or guacamole to the hummus. Although I’m a fan of both, I agreed with her that that those might muddy the flavors of the dish.

Daphne’s Layered Hummus

All the ingredients here are more or less to taste, and one could easily double or even triple the recipe. Daphne tends to end up with 1 to 2 cups of chopped vegetables of varying colors. She suggests adding, or substituting, other vegetables according to preference.

Ingredients:

8 to 16 ounces of hummus
finely diced red bell pepper
finely diced black olives
finely diced red onion
finely diced scallions
finely diced cucumbers
quartered cherry tomatoes
chopped herbs: basil, parsley, or cilantro (I think she used basil when she served this to me.)
a generous drizzle of olive oil

Instructions:

Spread the hummus on a small platter. Top it with the vegetables and the chopped herbs. Drizzle olive oil over all. Serve with tortilla chips, gluten-free crackers, or sliced vegetables. Serves 4 to 8 as an appetizer.

Daphne snips basil.

A Birthday (or any occasion) Feast

Monday, December 12th, 2022

Dennis’s Dip

My birthday falls next week, just two days before Christmas. In recent years, my family has instituted a birthday tradition for me that I adore. We eat only appetizers and desserts—or rather dessert, since the dessert du jour is always birthday cake for me.

If I didn’t feel that I should worry about my health, I would eschew main courses and eat nothing but appetizers and desserts all the time; I’m not a big fan of main courses. (Or perhaps I wouldn’t. After all, the appeal of this meal is that it isn’t ordinary.)

I got the idea from my neighbors at Singing Brook Farm here in Hawley, Massachusetts, who celebrate “Appy Night” every year the night after Thanksgiving. They know that the Thanksgiving table revolves around the turkey and its accoutrements, and they relish that special meal.

The evening AFTER Thanksgiving, however, they pay tribute to foods that don’t get to star on Thanksgiving and devote themselves to sumptuous appetizers and desserts.

I asked my friends and honorary cousins Molly and Liza Pyle how this tradition began. “It was during the Gam era,” Molly informed me. Gam was Mary Parker, the family’s much beloved (and occasionally much feared) matriarch. She died in 1989 so we calculated that Appy Night was born at least 35 years ago.

Thanksgiving was always the biggest annual holiday in the Singing Brook Farm family. As Gam’s grandchildren grew up and got married, they and their spouses prepared more and more elaborate dishes for the big meal.

One year in the 1980s, they went crazy with appetizers. When it came time to carve the turkey, no one had any appetite for it.

“And Gam was NOT happy,” Liza recalled. I shuddered mentally, remembering all too well that an unhappy Gam made for an unhappy family and an unhappy neighborhood.

The following year Appetizer Night entered the world, giving the family a chance to cook and consume foods that complemented the Thanksgiving board without overwhelming it, i.e. appetizers and desserts.

The practice also extends the holiday to more family members. Liza noted, “Often people arrive who can’t come the day before. It’s an opportunity to have that family connection.”

“And to contribute,” said her husband Dennis Bowen. The family is composed of a lot of active, competitive cooks who live to share their culinary talents.

The evening is relaxed. Not everything has to be served at once since the feast can last for hours. Food can arrive whenever it arrives.

This Year’s Appy Night First Course

I asked the family to identify some memorable dishes they had consumed during Appy Nights in the past. Liza and Molly’s brother David recalled a long-ago dish of baked bacon coated with brown sugar. Everyone was crazy about one sibling’s ex-wife’s rich crab dip. (I’m pursuing that recipe for the future.)

The gang seemed to agree that Dennis’s jalapeño dip was a perennial favorite, however. So that’s the recipe I’m sharing today.

The dip is considerably spicier the day after Dennis makes it, I am told. For some people, this will represent a warning; for others, a promise.

Appy Night usually includes some kind of salad as well as all the goodies, “for sanity’s sake,” Liza informed me. This year she threw together a Caesar salad. And of course there are myriad pies and sometimes other sweets.

The “dish” Singing Brook Farm’s current matriarch, Alice, enjoyed the most at this year’s gathering wasn’t actually edible. It was her newest great grandson, baby Jackson.

Thanksgiving is over for this year—but I encourage readers to try the appetizer-and-dessert model for other holiday parties.

It would work beautifully on Christmas Eve or New Year’s Day … or on one of those evenings during Hanukkah or Kwanzaa when the family doesn’t want a big meal but still wants to celebrate a little. It would also work as a fun pot-luck format for entertaining at any time of the year.

Here is Dennis’s dip. I have a feeling it will appear on my birthday menu. Thanks to Molly Pyle Stejskal for the photos in this post!

And by the way, if you’re searching for a holiday gift, remember a cookbook makes a lasting one. There’s still time to ship them before Christmas! Mine can be purchased here:

https://tinkycooks.com/tinkys-books/

Alice with Little Jackson Santini

Dennis’s Jalapeño Dip

I should note that Liza and Dennis disagree on the proportions in this dip. Liza finds the topping a bit much and would prefer to reduce it by a quarter (to 3/4 cup crumbs, 6 tablespoons cheese, 3 tablespoons melted butter). Dennis likes it just the way it is, however.

Ingredients:

for the dip:
2 8-ounce bricks cream cheese, at room temperature
1 cup mayonnaise
1 cup shredded cheese (a Mexican blend or even a nice sharp cheddar)
1/2 cup grated Parmesan cheese
1 can (4.5 ounces) green chiles, undrained
4 ounces pickled jalapeño peppers, rinsed and finely chopped
1 fresh jalapeño, finely chopped

for the topping:
1 cup panko bread crumbs
1/2 cup grated Parmesan cheese
4 tablespoons (1/2 stick) melted butter

Instructions:

Preheat the oven to 375 degrees. Grease a pie pan or a medium-size baking dish. Combine the dip ingredients thoroughly; then spoon the mixture into the prepared pan.

In another bowl, combine the topping ingredients until they are well blended. Sprinkle the crumb mixture evenly over the top of the dip. Bake until the dip is bubbly and the top browns, about 20 minutes.

The Singing Brook Farmers served the dip with large wheat crackers and carrot sticks this year. “But whatever!” said Liza. Serves a crowd.

Dennis with His Dip

Molly and Jiri’s Grilled Veggies

Friday, August 17th, 2012

Jiri at the Grill

I am generally haphazard while grilling vegetables. I slather a little oil, salt, and pepper on sliced zucchini, eggplant, and/or peppers and put them on the grill. Then I try to keep them from falling through the little holes in the grill. (Usually I save most of them.)

My friends Molly and Jiri Stejskal invited me to dinner the other night. They are MUCH more organized in their grilling than I am, and their marinated grilled vegetables were rich in flavor. Their recipe, like most for this sort of thing, is a little vague—but it’s not hard to follow, I promise!

Molly slices her veggies.

Grilled Summer Vegetables

Ingredients:

2 small-to-medium eggplants
6 to 8 Roma tomatoes (I imagine you could use non-Roma tomatoes, but make sure the ones you use are firm!)
3 garlic cloves (more if you like)
1 to teaspoons salt (more or less to taste)
a “gracious sufficiency” of olive oil (be generous!)
freshly ground pepper
a few sprinklings of grated Parmesan cheese
several basil leaves, torn into small pieces

Instructions:

Slice the eggplants into 1/4-inch chunks or slices and slice the tomatoes in half. The pieces should be about the same thickness; use the tomatoes to guide you about the eggplant pieces.

Score the skin side of the eggplant pieces with a fork, and the inner side(s) with a sharp knife to help the marinade soak in.

Mash the garlic cloves in salt. Toss the oil into the mashed, salty garlic. Add pepper to taste. Pour the garlicky oil onto the veggies and stir gently but thoroughly. If you need a little more oil to coat them all lightly, add it and stir again. Marinate the veggies for 1/2 hour, more or less.

Preheat your grill to medium heat. When it is warm, remove the vegetables from the oil (save the leftover oil!) and grill them. This will take from 10 to 15 minutes, depending on the heat of your grill; it shouldn’t be TOO hot.

The tomatoes should be grilled sliced-side down. Do not turn them. DO turn the eggplant slices halfway through cooking so that they grill on both sides.

When the veggies have cooked, arrange them on a platter. Toss on the cheese (it will melt ever so slightly into the vegetables) and the basil. Drizzle your leftover oil and garlic overall.

Serves 6.